Firstly, on my couch was Archie, who was a jolly man in his 60s. He was wearing a white tee-shirt that may have been a bit snug, faded blue pants and brown sandals. He has a largish belly, which he assures me is hereditary and not connected to food or drink at all. He was very much in his element, making jokes as I talked to each one in the room. He has a well developed sense of humour, as well as being a very clever and articulate man. He had a receding hairline, with white hair that had wisps kept standing up. He didn’t have a specific message, he just wanted his family to know he was ok. ♥
Tom is next on the couch and he is an uncle. He tells me he is trying to get hold of Tom, who was named after him. He tells me he had dementia when he passed and he knows that Tom found it extremely hard to cope with, so he didn’t visit him in the latter stages of his illness. He is telling Tom not to worry, he wasn’t really there all the time himself! Tom is quite tall and lean looking. I feel he was an incredibly hardworking man right up until he had to stop working. There is a Dorothy he wants to acknowledge too. ♥
James is a quiet man, soft spoken, and doesn’t say too much. He is happy just to be here, to be noticed, and to be a part of this post. He is less than 5ft tall and of average build. He is wearing an olive green diamond patterned knitted vest, which he loved. Apparently it got thrown away ‘by the missus’ when it got too ratty. He chuckles and tells me she is sure gonna be surprised when he next sees her and he’s wearing it! ♥
Dianne is sitting on the arm of the couch. She has short blonde hair, that is cut quite close to her neck. She wants me to send her love to John, Jake and Neville. I feel she would be in her 30s, and passed over in the 1970’s. She is dressed well and I feel that she lived in ‘abundance’. She passed over from something to do with her heart, according to the ‘symptom’ she just sent me. She tells me there is a special birthday coming up, and she wants them to know she will be there. ♥
On the armchair is Beryl, she looks a bit like a pixie and I would imagine she has a lot of mischief in her! She looks pretty innocent, but those eyes give it all away. She tells me she passed away in hospital, due to complications from an op (operation) on her heart. She knows her family are really upset and are blaming the hospital staff. She wants to tell them not to blame anyone. It was her time to go and she was ready, even if everyone else wasn’t. ♥
On the arm of Beryl’s chair is Justin. He is around 18 years old. He has dark hair, blue eyes and marks on his face from an acne issue he once had. He has given me a vision of the moment when he ‘jumped’. He wants his family to know he had to do it. He couldn’t control what was happening to him anymore and this was the only way he felt he could ‘fix it’. I feel there was some kind of habit or addiction in his life prior to his passing. He also wants his Mum and Dad to know he’s fine, he made it through to the other side - Grandma helped him get there. He has just given me a huge hug for you all. ♥
Standing, leaning against the wall, is David. He is around 22, reasonably tall and well built. His hair is a mid brown colour, but it has lighter streaks in it. He has the most amazing smile and perfect teeth! I feel he may have been a very athletic person. He tells me passed away after a freak accident. He wants his family to know he is okay, especially as they never found his body afterwards. He wants his family to know that they should try to remember all the good times. Oh, and he wants you to know he is happy Andrew has his car. ♥
Agnes visited me in the car on the way to work today. She has a definite grandmotherly energy to her. Her hair is silver grey with black flecks, which she wears tied in a bun at the nape of her neck. She was an amazing cook and loved her kitchen. She tells me she loved navy blue gingham (small checked fabric for those of you that are too young to know) and shows me some curtains in her kitchen that she made herself. She just wanted her great grandchildren to know she was around them. She tells me there is a smell like baking bread when she is around…and she’s right! ♥
Gale (Gayle) wants Robert to know that she is happy with his choice and she is glad he is happy again. She also wants him to know she really loved the recent family wedding. ♥This afternoon I was visited by Martin, he is a young boy of about 8 years old. He has dark hair and brown eyes. He is a bit of a character and likes to laugh a lot. I feel he would have been the sort of boy who pulled everything apart to see how it worked. He has spent a little time lying under my swivel chair, much like a mechanic, pretending to fix the underside. His Daddy fixes cars he tells me. I am getting a very bad cramp in my stomach as he talks to me and I believe this has some connection to his passing. He tells me he visits his Mummy and Daddy all the time. They are very unhappy and he wishes he could make them smile again. ♥
The ring that Jenny/Ginny is looking for has slipped behind something in the bathroom. The only way you will find it is to get down on your knees. It is quite an obscure place for it to be and he says it is resting on the pipe. ♥
Dimitri has popped in and out a couple of times this afternoon. My fault, I wasn’t sure whether he wanted to talk or not. He tells me that he has some friends that he used to go on outings with and he wants them to know he still tags along sometimes. Apparently there is a private joke about an ‘old nag’… ♥
Hazel wants her sister to know that she likes the new home she has just moved into. It’s the perfect size for her. ‘Now maybe you can spend more time having fun!’ ♥
Susan is a mother and in her 30’s. As I type, I have an almost uncontrollable urge to throw up. This is relative to her passing and is her way of letting her family know who she is. She has long blonde hair that doesn’t sit well, it’s a bit ‘flyaway’, I guess. She is saying something about polka dots, but I’m not sure what it is in reference to. She is showing me big pink and white polka dots, which I’m sure mean something to someone ..a private joke perhaps. She says she feels much better now and wants her family to know she loves them. She is showing me a small girl who would be around 16 months old now. She is blowing her a kiss. ♥
Brian wants Sarah to know that she’s doing the right thing. ‘Stop procrastinating woman, and just do it!’ ♥
Dora is a young girl around 4 years old with long curly dark hair, she is holding a doll that is floppy, like a cabbage patch doll, with pigtails. She calls them ‘piglets’ and I actually typed that first and thought ‘what the..?’ She is wearing a dress that has a lot of green in it and it has a gathered waist. She sucks her thumb and has the most enormous brown eyes. She was standing beside me, pulling on my shirt until I noticed her. She is quite short for her age. She wants Mummy and Daddy to know she is with ‘Aunty’ and aunty is taking good care of her. I feel this doll has a special significance and her Mummy and Daddy may know what I mean when I say this doll looks a lot like her, even though Dora doesn’t have hers in ‘piglets’. ♥Betty wants her brother Jim to know she has met up with their grandparents. She wants him to know that now she’s the favourite! Betty is in her 70’s, and has her short hair curled so it frames her face. She is quite petite and dressed in a lovely frock with red roses on it. She is sending love to her family and letting them know she is around them often. ♥
with love, respect and integrityCh