Well, its been an interesting couple of days here at my place. Last night, I had a wee party going on in my lounge room. I was engrossed in the post I was writing and didn’t realise I wasn’t alone….until I turned around! The following are my ‘party spirits’ from last night as well as those who have popped in tonight.
Firstly, on my couch was Archie, who was a jolly man in his 60s. He was wearing a white tee-shirt that may have been a bit snug, faded blue pants and brown sandals. He has a largish belly, which he assures me is hereditary and not connected to food or drink at all. He was very much in his element, making jokes as I talked to each one in the room. He has a well developed sense of humour, as well as being a very clever and articulate man. He had a receding hairline, with white hair that had wisps kept standing up. He didn’t have a specific message, he just wanted his family to know he was ok. ♥

Tom is next on the couch and he is an uncle. He tells me he is trying to get hold of Tom, who was named after him. He tells me he had dementia when he passed and he knows that Tom found it extremely hard to cope with, so he didn’t visit him in the latter stages of his illness. He is telling Tom not to worry, he wasn’t really there all the time himself! Tom is quite tall and lean looking. I feel he was an incredibly hardworking man right up until he had to stop working. There is a Dorothy he wants to acknowledge too. ♥

James is a quiet man, soft spoken, and doesn’t say too much. He is happy just to be here, to be noticed, and to be a part of  this post. He is less than 5ft tall and of average build. He is wearing an olive green diamond patterned knitted vest, which he loved. Apparently it got thrown away ‘by the missus’ when it got too ratty. He chuckles and tells me she is sure gonna be surprised when he next sees her and he’s wearing it! ♥

Dianne is sitting on the arm of the couch. She has short blonde hair, that is cut quite close to her neck. She wants me to send her love to John, Jake and Neville. I feel she would be in her 30s, and passed over in the 1970’s. She is dressed well and I feel that she lived in ‘abundance’. She passed over from something to do with her heart, according to the ‘symptom’ she just sent me. She tells me there is a special birthday coming up, and she wants them to know she will be there. ♥

On the armchair is Beryl, she looks a bit like a pixie and I would imagine she has a lot of mischief in her! She looks pretty innocent, but those eyes give it all away. She tells me she passed away in hospital, due to complications from an op (operation) on her heart. She knows her family are really upset and are blaming the hospital staff. She wants to tell them not to blame anyone. It was her time to go and she was ready, even if everyone else wasn’t. ♥

On the arm of Beryl’s chair is Justin. He is around 18 years old. He has dark hair, blue eyes and marks on his face from an acne issue he once had. He has given me a vision of the moment when he ‘jumped’. He wants his family to know he had to do it. He couldn’t control what was happening to him anymore and this was the only way he felt he could ‘fix it’. I feel there was some kind of habit or addiction in his life prior to his passing. He also wants his Mum and Dad to know he’s fine, he made it through to the other side - Grandma helped him get there. He has just given me a huge hug for you all. ♥

Standing, leaning against the wall, is David. He is around 22, reasonably tall and well built. His hair is a mid brown colour, but it has lighter streaks in it. He has the most amazing smile and perfect teeth! I feel he may have been a very athletic person. He tells me passed away after a freak accident. He wants his family to know he is okay, especially as they never found his body afterwards. He wants his family to know that they should try to remember all the good times. Oh, and he wants you to know he is happy Andrew has his car. ♥

Agnes visited me in the car on the way to work today. She has a definite grandmotherly energy to her. Her hair is silver grey with black flecks, which she wears tied in a bun at the nape of her neck. She was an amazing cook and loved her kitchen. She tells me she loved navy blue gingham (small checked fabric for those of you that are too young to know) and shows me some curtains in her kitchen that she made herself. She just wanted her great grandchildren to know she was around them. She tells me there is a smell like baking bread when she is around…and she’s right! ♥

Gale (Gayle) wants Robert to know that she is happy with his choice and she is glad he is happy again. She also wants him to know she really loved the recent family wedding. ♥

This afternoon I was visited by Martin, he is a young boy of about 8 years old. He has dark hair and brown eyes. He is a bit of a character and likes to laugh a lot. I feel he would have been the sort of boy who pulled everything apart to see how it worked. He has spent a little time lying under my swivel chair, much like a mechanic, pretending to fix the underside. His Daddy fixes cars he tells me. I am getting a very bad cramp in my stomach as he talks to me and I believe this has some connection to his passing. He tells me he visits his Mummy and Daddy all the time. They are very unhappy and he wishes he could make them smile again. ♥

The ring that Jenny/Ginny is looking for has slipped behind something in the bathroom. The only way you will find it is to get down on your knees. It is quite an obscure place for it to be and he says it is resting on the pipe. ♥

Dimitri has popped in and out a couple of times this afternoon. My fault, I wasn’t sure whether he wanted to talk or not. He tells me that he has some friends that he used to go on outings with and he wants them to know he still tags along sometimes. Apparently there is a private joke about an ‘old nag’… ♥

Hazel wants her sister to know that she likes the new home she has just moved into. It’s the perfect size for her. ‘Now maybe you can spend more time having fun!’ ♥

Susan is a mother and in her 30’s. As I type, I have an almost uncontrollable urge to throw up. This is relative to her passing and is her way of letting her family know who she is. She has long blonde hair that doesn’t sit well, it’s a bit ‘flyaway’, I guess. She is saying something about polka dots, but I’m not sure what it is in reference to. She is showing me big pink and white polka dots, which I’m sure mean something to someone ..a private joke perhaps. She says she feels much better now and wants her family to know she loves them. She is showing me a small girl who would be around 16 months old now. She is blowing her a kiss. ♥

Brian wants Sarah to know that she’s doing the right thing. ‘Stop procrastinating woman, and just do it!’ ♥

Dora is a young girl around 4 years old with long curly dark hair, she is holding a doll that is floppy, like a cabbage patch doll, with pigtails. She calls them ‘piglets’ and I actually typed that first and thought ‘what the..?’ She is wearing a dress that has a lot of green in it and it has a gathered waist. She sucks her thumb and has the most enormous brown eyes. She was standing beside me, pulling on my shirt until I noticed her. She is quite short for her age. She wants Mummy and Daddy to know she is with ‘Aunty’ and aunty is taking good care of her. I feel this doll has a special significance and her Mummy and Daddy may know what I mean when I say this doll looks a lot like her, even though Dora doesn’t have hers in ‘piglets’. ♥

Betty wants her brother Jim to know she has met up with their grandparents. She wants him to know that now she’s the favourite! Betty is in her 70’s, and has her short hair curled so it frames her face. She is quite petite and dressed in a lovely frock with red roses on it. She is sending love to her family and letting them know she is around them often. ♥

with love, respect and integrity
Ch

Hi everyone! Well, it has been an open house of sorts at my place, not just tonight, but all week. Thank goodness I'm not getting very many early morning wake up calls...especially those ones that lean over me to see if I'm awake yet...I'll let you imagine how that goes... he he.
Please don't feel disappointed if your loved one doesn't appear tonight, there is always next week, or the week after... Tonight there was a line out the door when I opened it - and yes, thats exactly how I welcome them in! (No one bought cake, which is a bit of a shame! lol)
Many thanks to those who send me messages after each week's 'Spirit Called'. It is always heartwarming to know a message has been received. Enough rambling, lets get down to business. xx

Simon is a big burly man and quite tall, as he towers over me. I am assuming around 6ft at least. I feel he worked in the mines and he has very rough hands, and biceps as big as mountains…well, at least small hills. He was a very gentle man, in spite of his size and he was married to an Elizabeth/Eliza. I feel he passed in his late 40s, early 50s in some kind of accident. He wants her to know he loves her very much and he is so proud of how strong she is and the fact that she has learned to do so much since he has been gone. He is sending you much love. I feel there is a tattoo on his right bicep that has special significance, as he just flashed it at me. ♥

John is a red haired freckly young man, aged between 19-22. He tells me he wants to let his mate know he is okay. It was no one’s fault, they were all just being stupid and there was bound to be a price to pay. He wants him to know he isn’t holding a grudge and that he shouldn’t feel guilty. He slaps me on the back and says to tell you its time you made an honest woman of Milly/Millie. ♥

Janine wants her family to know she is okay. She knows what she did was selfish, but she couldn’t think of any other way out of her predicament. She is sorry they had to go through so much. She is also thanking you for keeping her memory alive for her children. She is sending love to you all. ♥

Sally wants her brother to know its about time he got serious about his girlfriend and stopped taking her for granted. (I feel she may have been the bossy older sister?!) He has a birthday coming up soon and she wants me to wish him a happy birthday. ♥

Gemma/Jemima has come in. She is a small mousy person in her early 20s. She has a message for Barry. She wants him to know she never stopped loving him, no matter what she said or did before she passed. She is blowing you a kiss. ♥

Grant is in his late 30s and is a bit of a man about town. I feel he would have been quite the ladies man in his time and he liked to have the best of everything. He wants his grandma to know that he is okay, that he didn’t feel a thing and that he has been keeping company with grandad. They are both watching over, and out for you. There is a flower/plant by the front porch/steps and I am told there is often three blooms on it, one for each of you. ♥

I have a young lady here with beautiful long straight blonde hair and she is quite slim. I feel she passed with a lung issue.  I don’t feel it was an illness, more of an injury. She is also ‘showing’ me the pain at the back of her head which is relative to her passing. I feel she was in an accident, but it doesn’t feel as if it was in a car. It feels as if something fell against/towards her and knocked her backwards. She also has a limp. She wants her parents to know she is okay and that she knows how hard this past year has been for them. She often sits on the blue seat and you may have noticed. ♥

Mandy is a young girl of around 8-10. She has a small dog with her. It looks like a fluffy mini poodle type dog. (sorry, my knowledge of dog breeds is limited). She calls the dog Sara or Zara. She wants her parents to know that she isn’t alone, she has the puppy as well as her ‘grandparents’ who are standing together behind her, with a hand on each of her shoulders. Grandfatherly type has a navy checked shirt on and dark grey pants, with dark grey hair. Grandmotherly type has on a small pink floral print dress and has soft grey hair. ♥

Bradley is around 18 years old, although he tells me he is known as Brad, only his mum calls him Bradley, and usually when he’s in trouble… He passed as the result of an accident that wasn’t of his own doing. I feel this was related to something in the country or a rural-ish zone, rather than the city/urban area. He is showing me a fair sized bump on his head and telling me that he fell onto a rock…or perhaps dived onto it in the water, as he is showing me some running water, like a creek or stream. He says he was gone instantly. One minute he was diving in the water, and the next he was sitting on the bank watching everyone trying to resuscitate him. He tells me he had already passed, and he wants everyone to know that they couldn’t have done a better job, and there are a couple who felt guilty afterwards, but there is no need. He says its great that a couple of his mates have settled down and he wishes them all the best. He also sends his love to Tracy and tells her to stay strong. ♥

Martin wants Ruby to know he visits her all the time and hears her when she talks to him. He wants her to take a vacation, and he is showing me an idyllic beach with two white wooden chairs side by side. He has told me to assure you that he is coming too! ♥

Robert is a bald man in his late 50s. I feel he liked his beer, and he is patting his stomach as I type that, in agreement. (I don’t drink beer, but I just got the taste of beer in my mouth – awesome!) His wife is still alive and he wants her to know he loves her very much. He is sorry he didn’t listen to her when she said drinking would be the death of him! (said with a grin on his face, as I feel that this was not how he passed, but a private joke) He wants her to find a smaller place so she can relax and enjoy life. (but always your choice, Donna) ♥

Archibald is an elderly gent in his 80s, but he stands up very straight. I feel he was in the regiment, as he has that whole ‘at attention’ look about him. He tells me he passed not long after his wife passed, around 3 months later. She is also standing beside him now, and I have to say they are like chalk and cheese, as they are so very different in size, stature and demeanor. They want Steve to know they are together again and very happy. ♥

Joan/Joann is a tall blonde woman. I feel that she used to walk around as if her limbs were too big for her, as she looks quite awkward as if she doesn’t know where to put them to feel comfortable. She passed after a long illness, which accentuated her tallness, as she lost quite a lot of weight. She is showing me an old doona/duvet cover with big red spots and some navy stripes at one end. She is telling her husband to throw it away. She knows he is keeping it because it was on the bed before she passed, but she is gently asking him to move on with his life. She tells me its been 7 years and its time he started living again. ♥

Mandy is in her 30s. She has a bubbly personality and I feel she would have been the life of the party. What everyone never suspected was that she was terribly depressed. She played her part well, and no one suspected right to the end. She wants her friends to stop blaming themselves for not realising how badly it was affecting her. She tells me she should have got a prize for her acting, sometimes she even fooled herself. She is sending love and happiness to her friends and telling them not to feel guilty. ♥

Kathy has dark hair and it is cut quite short. I feel she would have been a bit of a dragon lady, but beneath that outward appearance, she had a heart of gold and would do anything for everyone. Tact was not her strongest point, she tells me. She is currently watching over two females from her family - not just these two, but maybe giving them more attention than the rest. One seems to be a child and the other in her mid to late 20s. I feel they are related and in the same house. There is also a naughty dog that keeps growling at her. She wants you to know she is there when you need her. The person who this is meant for will receive/find a red flower within the next 6 days…in a place where there shouldn’t be one. ♥

Amy is an older woman, she is in her late 70s. She has soft grey hair which curls around her face. She is quite short, maybe about 4ft 6’’ (sorry, I don’t do metric when it comes to height) and I get the feeling she had a bad limp. I am feeling lower back pain and also a sense of a broken right hip. (she keeps tapping it to get my attention) She actually passed in her sleep and is grateful for all her family and visitors that came while she was recovering. She wants her family to know that she approves of them selling her house. It was no good to any of you anyway and she would rather the money was used to help make life easier for you all. She tells me there is a black and white pic of her husband in his army uniform on the wall in her son’s lounge. She wants him to know she loves it being there, but its time the frame was replaced as its falling apart. ♥

Tony has a message for his wife. There is a box in the garage with ‘Papers’ written on it, and it holds the information she is looking for. ♥

with love,respect and integrity
Cherie xx

Emily came to me while I was bathing my grandies the other night. She announced herself with a flash of aqua blue. She was wearing a blue dress, like a princess dress, but she was carrying a toy wand. I would say she is between five and six years old. She has beautiful blonde hair, although she tells me that her hair feel out before she passed. She wants her Mummy and Daddy to know that she is alright, that she is an angel now. She smiles and tells me she’s not a real angel. She tells me she misses you all and visits you. Apparently there is a new puppy in the house… I would imagine that when Emily is around, your puppy acts a little strangely, as she tells me she plays with him all the time. It feels like it is similar to a sausage dog. ♥

Margaret is a tall woman and I feel that she stooped over a bit. It appears most of her friends were a fair bit shorter than her. She has popped in to say hello to Barbara and tell her that the gangs all there. Apparently they all used to play bridge together and Barbara is the only one left here. Margaret isn’t trying to get you to rush over to where they are, she just wants you to know they are holding your ‘hand’ open until you are ready to come and play! ♥

I have a Bob here, and I also have a Bill. They aren’t together, they have just stepped forward at the same time. I will do one at a time. Bob is here because he wants his wife to know he is thinking of her and loves her very much. He says he misses her fussing over him and he’s sorry he didn’t appreciate it while he was alive. He wants her to check on Mary as he feels that she needs some help. Bob is in his late 50s – 60s and has a wickedly warm smile. He has white wavy hair and it is quite thick. He tells me he used to grow a beard but his wife didn’t like it. He is showing me a blue checked shirt. He was buried in this shirt and he knows she will know its him because it was her favourite. ♥

Bill tells me he used to work on the railway. He also tells me he had a bung ear while he was alive. His right ear was almost completely deaf. He tells me he fooled a lot of people to start off with by reading their lips, but eventually he got caught out and lost his job. He tells me he wants to thank all his many friends who stood by him and helped him when he was feeling lost and useless. He is showing me a small house, wooden with a verandah on it and wooden steps. It is a strange colour, a cross between yellow and cream. He lived not far from the railway line as well, so he could hear the trains as they came past. I am seeing lots of coal trains, so I would assume he either worked around coal trains or lived nearby. ♥

Marilyn is in her 40s and very bubbly. She has dancing eyes and dimples in her cheeks. I feel she would have smiled and joked for most of her life. She tells me she passed not long after contracting pneumonia. She was disappointed she didn’t get a chance to say goodbye to her family. She tells me she had three sons and four grandchildren – 2 girls. There is a Molly in the family and she has seen Marilyn on several occasions, but no one believes her. Marilyn is blowing a kiss to her family and sending love…and telling them they should listen to Molly. Marilyn wants them to know she is around them when they need her. ♥

I have a Betty and Wanda here. I thought they had both stepped forward like Bill and Bob, but they tell me they are sisters. They have a younger brother David, who is still alive and they want him to know they are very happy and together. They are laughing and describing what happened the other night. They want him to know they saw him burn his dinner and think perhaps he should leave the cooking to his lady friend, whom they both approve of, by the way. ♥

Janine or Jasmine keeps coming through and I feel she was quite a sweet and soft spoken person. She tells me she left ‘quite suddenly’ and that is all she is saying about her passing. I am getting a pain below my ribs on the right hand side and feel there was a problem there. She tells me that she had many good friends who looked after her and kept her company and she wants them to know how much she appreciated their love and support. She tells me that one of her friends is having trouble with her lights…she is smiling sweetly and telling me that is her letting her friend know she is around. So if your lights are flickering, etc and you knew a Janine/Jasmine, remember to say 'Hi!' next time it happens. ♥

Jared/Jarrod has just popped in briefly to say hi to his Dad and brother Michael. He is okay and just wants them to know his passing was instant and he didn’t feel any pain. ♥

Andrea is a small petite woman and I feel she has a European background. She has a definite accent and when she is annoyed she speaks a different language. Ah, she has defined that for me, when she is agitated. She never gets annoyed! She was an awesome cook and there were many meals at her place…I am getting ‘Mumma’s place’. She loved having her family around and she spoilt the grandchildren rotten. I am told that she had a favourite hat, straw colour with red roses on it, which she wore when she went out in the garden. She loved red roses and grew them around her porch. She tells me that she has a very large family and visits them often. She especially loves visiting the bambinas, as there are two new little ones this year. If this is your mother/grandmother, the chances are your baby girls are looking over your shoulder at her as she smiles and speaks to them. Xx

When I awoke this morning I had a babe in my arms. Her name was Daile Ann(e) and I felt she had not long passed over. If this is your baby, you are being told that she is safe and there is a mother/grandmother figure looking after her. I feel this woman is from your mothers side of the family. She was standing by my bed, asking me to tell you that she is looking after her and that she loves you. She is also telling you it was not your fault, don’t play the ‘blame game’. It happened because it happened. This baby will return to you when the time is right. ♥

Cathy/Kathy came to me while I was driving today. She is around 18-19 years old and has lovely straight blonde hair. I got a huge pain at the top of my head and I feel that she was involved in a car accident, where she suffered a head injury. She was wearing trackpants and a sweatshirt. A picture of a hockey game quickly played out in front of me. They had all been on their way for a ‘special’ game and were in something like a mini van or a vehicle that carries quite a few passengers. She wants her parents to know she didn’t suffer and that she loves them. Apparently its okay that her sister has all her old makeup, even though she should get her own, ‘cos the colours aren’t really her! ♥

Jim wants Fran to know that its time she got someone in to do the lawns. She needs to take it easy and do a little less. ♥

Brian wants Stella to know he misses her too, but she isn’t to put her life on hold. He wants her to get out and have some fun. ♥

Susan has asked that Pete be told that the issue with the TV is not repairable, she is using it to try and get his attention. ♥

Jenny/Jennifer was a petite student and I see her carrying books around a campus. She is wearing a strange hat, similar to a beanie, but its not. It is a fawn colour but it has other colours threaded through it. - it has a dangly end to it. She wants her friends to know that what they believe to be true, isn’t. It was an accident. She won’t say any more than that. She tells me that the one that needs to get this message will read it. ♥

Pip is asking Greg to take more notice of the children. There is an issue with one of them and he needs someone to talk to. She says, ’Just because they’re grown up, doesn’t mean they don’t need you’. ♥

John has a message fro Kevin. Stop looking so hard, it will come when its ready. ♥

Samantha has an awesome scent to herald her arrival. It is not florally and I would imagine it is a very expensive perfume. I feel that she was quite well off and passed quite suddenly. I don’t feel that she had any children, but she did leave behind a husband and two Pekinese dogs. She dresses well and glides in a way that shows she has been used to the finer things in life. She wants her niece to know she is okay. They had a very close relationship, as close to mother and daughter you can be without being one.

Gloria came to me the other day. She is a grandmotherly type and wore a lot of florals when she was on the physical plane. I get the feeling she should have worn an apron (but didn't very often) and she used to wipe her hands on the side of her dresses. She has wavy blonde/sandy hair and a lovely heart shaped face. I get the feeling she used to get harassed a lot, as in getting stressed about the little things. I am getting a pain in my chest and I feel her passing was either heart or lungs related. She has three granddaughters and two grandsons and wants them to know she is alright. She misses the fun they had when they were young children at her place. I am being shown a sort of orchard and feel there was a specific tree that they used to all climb up. She also shows me a black and white dog that belonged to one of the grandchildren and tells me that she is good company.

I have a Jock here, he is definitely of Scottish origin or heritage. He is quite rough and ready and I feel he didn’t mince words. Whatever he thought, he said… and if you didn’t like it, well too bad. Not his problem! He tells me he had a large family and his wife passed over before he did. For all his bluster, he found it hard to adapt to her passing. I feel there was a chest issue/heart problem related to his passing. ♥

Jenny or Ginny is my next visitor. She is around 40-45 and has soft brown curls around her face. She is showing me a blue nursery and tells me that she is going to be a grandmother soon. She is very happy about this and knows her daughter is struggling with her pregnancy, knowing that her Mum isn't there. She is reassuring her that she is around and she loves the mobile up over the cot,, it reminds her of a similar one they had when her daughter was a baby. She has told me to tell you that the cot needs to be moved as the sun might be annoying from that position in the summer months. She sends love and hugs.

I had a Simon come and whisper in my ear the other night ‘The story isn’t over yet.’ Apparently he has a sister who is writing a book and he wants her to know it needs another chapter. He keeps trying to tell her, but she isn’t listening. If you 'lost' a brother around 43 years old, tall, lean, blonde wavy hair with ‘rugged good looks’ (his words, but he is good looking!). I feel as if he was a perpetual child, especially when it came to enjoying life. He looks like he enjoyed water sports – he has that kind of stereotypical look to him. He is showing me an old chapel and I’m not sure whether this is where his service was held, or it is relative to the book he is talking about that his sister is writing. I feel he died in strange circumstances. ♥

I have a Robert here, and he says it in quite a posh voice like Roh-burt. He passed away while in his late 50s. (I went to write 60's and he said 'Oh no, my dear, I was only in my 50's')He looks a bit older than he is and he tells me he had quite a wild time of life in his younger days. I feel there was an issue with his stomach prior to his passing, or this issue caused his passing. He is average height and weight and has long tapering fingers that remind me of a musician. He tells me he played alright, but not an instrument. (He's a bit of a mischief, this one!) He has a friend called Barb or Barbra who he spent a lot of time with and he wants her to know he saw everything she told him he would. He says he promised he would let her know and this is why he has come through tonight. (I did ask him to share the info, but he just put his finger to his lips and smiled...I'm guessing thats a 'no' then) ♥

Mary is about 5 years old. She is skipping around my room, holding a worn out teddy bear. She tells me that she has a little ‘bruvver’ here who would be about 20 years old now. Mary has dark hair in ‘high pigtails’ and is a bundle of energy. She tells me she was in a fire and shows me a house that is completely devastated. Apparently her parents tried to get to her but they couldn’t get past the fire. She tells me Mummy and Daddy feel bad because they could only save her brother, who was a baby at the time. If this is you, please let go of this guilt. What happened, happened. Mary says she is around you and it is her that ‘stirs’ up the cat by teasing it. (she is showing me how she sometimes teases the cat to let you know she is there) When it happens again, remember to say 'Hi' and smile! ♥

James was in a car accident. He thinks he fell asleep at the wheel before running into a parked vehicle. He wants his parents to know he wasn't drinking, he was just incredibly tired. He doesn't want them to think badly of him. He's sorry for how it looked and all turned out. He gives me the impression that there were angry words exchanged and he passed before they all had a chance to patch it up. He is telling me he loves you and he always will. ♥

I want to say Delilah, but the name is something like Delphia. This lady is in her 30’s and is quite self contained. I feel she would have been a very gentle soul with an iron will. Its as if she would state how it was going to be, but in such a way that you couldn’t refuse her. She has a very sweet smile and her eyes are a bit mischievous. She has black hair and I feel it is either tied back in a bun at the nape of her neck, or cut around that length as she grew older. She tells me she has three big burly sons. Unfortunately she never had daughters, but she tells me that one of her daughter in laws is like a daughter to her. When I queried this, as it seemed strange that she would have a daughter in law in her 30's, she tells me that one of her son's wives has also passed over about a year ago. They have very become close. ♥

I have an elderly couple here. I am not sure whether it's Harry or Harriet, but this is the name of one of them. They are standing to my right with their arms around each other. I feel they both passed around the same time, maybe within 6 months of each other. They tell me they have three daughters and a son. One of the daughters senses them around her, but hasn't worked out whether it is or not. They are telling me to tell you that yes, your parents are around you. They are very proud of you and love you very much. They tell me its about time you got rid of 'that old jalopy', which I believe is a soft blue, and invested in a decent car. You will come across something red in the next few days that will be confirmation of them visiting me tonight...because apparently, you are a bit of a skeptic, and don't believe everything you are told....just like me! They want you to know they are very happy and you aren't to worry about them any more. I am also being told to say 'what's past is past.' ♥

I have a bouncy dog here. He is quite energetic and is running around in circles in my lounge. I assume he wants to his owner he is okay. I am getting a sense of 5 years since he has passed. He is showing me an older gentleman and two young children that are also around him on the other side. I don’t mean to offend anyone, but the gentleman’s hair makes him look a bit like a ‘mad professor’. The children are around 6-8 and there is a boy and a girl with dark hair. I feel they are siblings and part of the family tree that this owner belongs to, but I feel they are either further back or 'to the side of the tree'. I feel they were twins that either miscarried or passed not long after birth. The dog is showing me a lot of shoes, and I am going to go out on a limb and say he either chewed shoes or stockpiled them when he was on the physical plane.♥

My next visitor is a very demure and shy woman in her fifties. She has grey hair and wears round spectacles. I am getting Doris or Dorothy. She wrings her hands a lot and I feel this is something she did a lot on the physical plane. She was quite a nervous woman and I feel that this made her the butt of good natured jokes. I feel that she died quite suddenly, but it wasn’t traumatic. Its almost as if she fell asleep and woke up on the other side. She is showing me a garden with veges as well as flowers. She is very soft spoken and I get the impression she would be a very hard worker. I feel she is not from Australia. Where she used to live is quite cool and she shows me a roaring fire in a fireplace. ♥

I have a young boy here and his name is Daniel or David. I feel he is around 8-10 years old. He has a slight lisp and is very quietly spoken. He tells me that he passed because of the bandage on his head. I feel he either had a huge bang to his head or an operation that didn’t go well. I am feeling nauseous and my vision is a little wobbly as I write this, and I believe this is how he felt before he passed over. He is showing me a visual of him in a hospital bed and he is on a ventilator or life support machine. He wants his parents to know he doesn’t have a sore head anymore and he loves them ‘totally’. ♥

I have an aunty here, although she tells me she is a great aunty. She tells me that she was in the war as a nurse, and shows me a visual of her uniform. She says she worked very hard tending to those who were injured in the first world war. It was not a pleasant task, but she felt she gave comfort and helped many. She tells me that she has a ‘great’ niece on the physical plane who has the same gift of ‘healing’. She tells me that her niece needs to stop ‘pussyfooting’ around the idea and take some action. Life is too short to keep putting things off. She is showing me an open door and asking you to stop standing at the threshold and walk through to what you know you need to do. ♥

I have a Rose here. She is telling me that she wants her sister to know she is okay. She said it was a bit of a shock how fast she passed over, and she wishes they had had more time together. Rose says she watches over your baby daughter (her niece) while she sleeps. I am being told her name starts with ‘C’. In time your little girl will be able to show you where Rose is. Rose also tells me she is very proud of you and the way you have coped this past year. ♥

I have a Stanley here. He also passed quite quickly. I feel he was doing something out in the yard and just collapsed. Apparently he wasn’t discovered straight away and his family have felt guilty because they weren’t there fast enough to revive him. He wants you to know he was already gone by the time his body hit the ground. It was so sudden, one minute he was thinking about what he was doing and the next minute he was watching from above his body. He also wants you to know he loves you very much and loves what you did for him after he passed. I am being shown a seat in a garden and he said he sits there often. ♥

My next visitor is Mike, he tells me that he just wants to say ‘Hi’ to his mate Ivan, just because he can… He is giving you the thumbs up, as I believe there has been a new development in your life and that is his way of congratulating you. I feel Mike passed as a result of a head injury or something relevant to the right side of his head. He has a wicked sense of humour and I feel you were both a force to be reckoned with when you were together. ♥

Sally has been waiting patiently all day. She tells me she wants her Grandma to know she is okay. She says she is sorry she caused her so much sadness and worry. I feel Sally lived with Grandma or was staying with her when she had an accident of some sort. I get the impression she is around 16 or 17 years old when she passed over. ♥

John tells me he has a wife here on the physical plane. He says he wants to thank her for the way she nursed him and for being there with him to the end. He says he knows it was extremely difficult and he hopes you will remember all the good times you had together, instead of dwelling on how things turned out. He tells me the new cabinet you bought looks great, and if you look under all that paper on the shelf, you will find the item you are looking for. He hid it and knew you would need proof it was him….. ♥

I have another John here and he has a message for Mary. He is telling her to stop worrying so much about the kids. They will be okay. If you try to use strong-arm tactics you will only end up making them do the opposite of what you want them to. He also says to make sure you check the tyres on ‘the young fella’s car, as there is a problem with one of them. He is sending you kisses and hugs. As he leaves, he is doing something like a skip/jig and telling me to tell you ‘I can dance again!’ ♥

I have a young girl here. She is about 8 and her name is Sable. She passed away about three years ago and wants her parents to know she is okay. She also wants her younger brother to know its okay that he painted her bike a different colour so he could use it. She says she is glad he is there to keep her parents company and love them. She misses him as well as her Mummy and Daddy. She is showing me a nursery and I feel there is another baby on the way. She is jumping up and down with excitement…'it’s a girl', she is telling me. (hope we didn’t spoil it for you) ♥

Mark and John are here arm in arm. I feel they were very good mates and have reunited on the other side. They are acting all silly as they show me some of the things they did when they were out drinking. I feel they were very ‘happy’ socialisers. They have asked me to tell their best friend that he still owes them a round…it’s his shout next time! Apparently there is an issue with things crashing in the middle of the night…guess who!? ♥

I have a Pranesh here. He tells me he did not pass away in his country of birth. His parents are worried about leaving where they live because they will be moving from the area of his passing. He wants them to know he is not there. He is wherever they are, he is not tied to anywhere. Wherever they go, he will still be able to visit. He begs them not to just stay somewhere chained to a bad memory. ♥

Jason is my next visitor. He is showing me how emaciated he was when he passed over. I feel as if his body just shut down bit by bit. He tells me it was through HIV. He also tells me his partner was amazing throughout and he wants him to know how much he loves him and is so proud of the way he helped him during his illness.  Jason says he is glad you have finally found someone else…and just so you know, he arranged for you to both meet. No more feeling guilty or sad, you deserve happiness. ♥

Jenny came to see me last night. She is a quiet spoken middle aged woman. She is sad for her son and the way the rest of the family have treated him since she passed last year. She wants them to know she isn’t happy and has asked them to show more compassion, to try and understand what he is going through, instead of telling him to ‘Man up!’ She is wearing a soft red sweatshirt with some sort of stitching on the front. Apparently this was her favourite and it was also her son’s. She tells me she whispers words of encouragement in his ears at night while he sleeps and reminds him of how much she loves him. ♥

Gloria is an elderly lady in her late eighties. She is stooped over and not very tall, although I am not able to see her standing upright. She is showing me her garden from when she was here and she tells me she was very proud of it. It looks like an English country garden, with lots of colourful flowers and shrubs. She is also showing me her vegetable patch around the back. She tells me she did lots of gardening, it helped her find peace and contentment. I feel her family lived elsewhere in the world and couldn’t come to visit very often. She tells me they tried to get there in time for her passing, but she was in a lot of pain and impatient to leave this world. She wants me to tell them all (three children and partners and six grandchildren) that she is around them and love them very much. She has told me to tell you that a red flower will come into your life and it will be from her. I asked if it would come from your garden, but she has just smiled with a twinkle in her eye and told me that would spoil the surprise if she told me! Expect it to appear in the most strangest of circumstances – I feel its going to be one of those ‘Aha! moments’. ♥

Well, that’s it for tonight. Thank you for allowing me to share my visitors with you.
Have a beautiful night and remember: You are never alone. If you have lost someone, don’t spend all your time looking for the ‘big signs’, sometimes its as simple as a phone call with no sound, only static, or a song appearing on the radio as you think about them, a misplaced object turning up right where you thought it was in the first place, or that beautiful heat we get around our shoulders when we get a hug. ♥